Hello World!
This blog was an idea created after I spent half an hour giving a close companion relationship advice and they suggested I write it all down in a blog. This is actually my second blog. My first is a fashion blog (see link) http://diaryofalondonteenagefashionista.blogspot.com/ I love writing and so I decided to take them up on the idea and here I am.
Basically, for a long long time friends have been coming to me for advice on all aspects of life. I am a teenager and have been recommended for an agony aunt in my school paper (until it shut down) and I am usually who people come to about any problems they may have, relationship or otherwise. Now I am very bad at taking my own advice but most of the time it works out for other people.
I am all about respecting yourself first an foremost, nobody will ever take a relationship further with you if you seem like you can't even respect yourself. I truely believe in the fact that "Before you love others, you must learn to love yourself" Now I am not sure who came up with that but along time ago it came to me and I really agree with it. It's one of my life motto's I am glad to share with you all (there will be many more trust me)
The worst thing I hear is people saying 'I'm playing the game' Well mate, to be blunt, that's obvious and trust me the only relationships you will get with that attitude will end badly. Love is a game but you don't 'play it' I would say it's more like a long-haul flight. You are either keen on getting to the destination or you should just jump off now and save yourself the jet-lag and the baggage fees.
Now I am also up for talking about life. Now life really is a game. I am huge believer in fate but it always needs a helping hand. My first ever bit of philosophy was "mummy, life is like a pushchair" I was in my pram and I made a hell of a lot of sense. Think about it; life carries you through, sometimes it collapses and you have to build it back up, sometimes you take the break off and it rushes away. Now with life you only have so much control. It's all about making choices and I am one of the most indecisive people I know and I'm still surviving!
So this is the chance for me to talk about whatever it is you need me too. If you comment a direct idea you want me to address I will answer as best as I can and as soon as I can. If not check back as I am soon to be writing another post.
Best wishes,
Amber
